Wednesday, July 27, 2011

An End

So, last weekend I was running my Greedy Little Bastards campaign with a number of friends. As a life-long GM, I am pretty good at running a fair and fun night, else I would have no one willing to play in my particular sandbox.

That being said, I lost patience with one of the players and barked out a warning that I was tired, worked very hard to run a game all the players could enjoy, and that effort required respect, so please just comply with my ruling. After the below events, I checked in with the other players and the consensus appears that my ruling did not seem to warrant argument from the player.

I do not wish to detract from the fact that I shouldn't have shouted. That was improper and I regret it.

The player quit, then sent text after text to me for the next four hours, telling me my motives for treating him inappropriately. At the end, he told me that he was removing me from all his social media. I told him I felt that was a shame, that making such decisions at 0330 in the AM might lead to regret.

I regret his action. I regret losing my temper and shouting. Twenty-eight years seems a long time to simply toss in the dustbin over a disagreement regarding a game.

I have a number of buts I might place in here, but such would detract from what I am apologizing for.

I hope that there will come a day when we might say something like this to one another and to others:


  1. Wow, sorry to hear this.

    Don't know if it helps, but I was in the middle of a similar situation a few months ago with a couple of my long time online gaming buddies. One of them got mad at the other and defriended him wherever they happened to have a common connection.

    After a couple months of cooling off they are now back to fragging each other with gleeful abandon... and ganging up on me whenever I might show the slightest bit of talent at a game :-P

    Hopefully your incident will have a similar outcome eventually.

  2. I'm so sorry :( Losing a friend is one of the hardest things in the world to handle. I swear that kind of hurt can be worse than any sort of romantic break up.

    Hang in there, Griffin.